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Toi et Moi

These are a modern and bold style of engagement ring. We love mixing and matching colours and shapes. They make for a very cool style that you can have fun playing with combinations.

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Toi et Moi Engagement Rings, Handmade in Edinburgh

Toi et moi — you and me. Two stones, side by side, each distinct yet inseparable. It's one of the most romantic ring styles in the history of fine jewellery, and one of the most personal.

Originally popularised by Napoleon Bonaparte, who gave Joséphine a toi et moi ring upon their engagement in 1796, the style has endured for over two centuries as a symbol of two souls coming together. Today it's one of the most sought-after engagement ring styles in the world — and at Jewellery by Liam Ross, every toi et moi ring is designed and handcrafted in our Edinburgh workshop.

Why Choose a Toi et Moi Ring?

  • Deeply personal — two stones can represent two people, two birthstones, or two chapters of your story
  • Endlessly customisable — mix diamond shapes, combine a diamond with a coloured gemstone, or choose two contrasting cuts
  • Distinctive and fashion-forward — toi et moi rings are having a major moment, worn by some of the most style-conscious people in the world
  • Rich in history — a ring style with over 200 years of romantic heritage

Imagine Knowing the Jeweller Who Made Your Ring

Every ring we create is made by hand by Liam Ross and his team, and hallmarked at the Edinburgh Assay Office. That hallmark is more than a guarantee of precious metal quality — it's a mark of provenance, of place, and of the person who made it. Most people will never know who made their engagement ring. Our customers always will.

Bespoke Toi et Moi Rings

The toi et moi is one of the most personal ring styles to design from scratch. We work with you to choose two stones that complement each other perfectly — in shape, colour, and character. We create a 3D model so you can see your ring before it's made. Most bespoke rings are ready in 2–6 weeks.

Edinburgh's Most Trusted Engagement Ring Jeweller

With over 500 five-star Google reviews, Jewellery by Liam Ross is Edinburgh's most trusted destination for bespoke engagement rings. No outsourcing. No compromise.

Exceptional Aftercare, Unlike Anywhere Else

Your ring will never be posted — unlike most other jewellers. Every ring is collected or delivered in person. If the size isn't quite right after your proposal, we'll resize it in just 1–3 days.

The Jewellery by Liam Ross Promise

  • Handcrafted in our Edinburgh workshop
  • Edinburgh Hallmarked
  • Free engraving included
  • 3D model preview available on bespoke designs
  • Ring resizing in 1–3 days if needed
  • Your ring is never posted — always collected or delivered in person
  • 2-year guarantee
  • Lifetime free cleaning and checking
  • 30-day money-back guarantee

Handmade in Edinburgh. Designed for forever.

Curated Collections

Solitaires

Liam and the team enjoy searching for the perfect diamond and these solo stones can be enjoyed on their own, or accented with a hidden halo or shoulder stone details.

Trilogy

Representing you Past, Present and Future together. We love our fluid settings that allow light around your stones. Play around with a combination of cuts.

Toi et Moi

Playful modern designs. Representing You and Me. We love combining two stunning diamonds or a diamond and coloured stone.